Leo Babuta posted his 38 Life Lessons I’ve Learned in 38 Years. It’s a great list.
I have 40 rules that I have been compiling over the years and been trying to live by. 40 is just a number, there will be more. Except for Rule 1, the rest are in no particular order. Rule 1 is the most important to me. Some of these rules will make sense to you, some will not. Some need a context and some are very clear. In any case, these are my rules and make sense to me.
Rule 1: Be aware of your surroundings.
Rule 2: Always keep on pushing forward, especially during those life changing moments.
Rule 3: The quality of your friends always matters more than the quantity.
Rule 4: Keep your mouth shut.
Rule 5: Always provide correction in private and praise in public.
Rule 6: When you’re with someone you love, make sure in that moment they know they’re the center of your world.
Rule 7: Pick your battles…
Rule 8: He who angers you conquers you.
Rule 9: Do nothing which is of no use. (Miyamoto Musashi)
Rule 10: Simple and light equals freedom, agility and mobility.
Rule 11: Be mindful of all the possibilities in the future, but don’t be ruled by them.
Rule 12: Be content with what you have.
Rule 13: Make things as simple as possible but no simpler. (Einstein)
Rule 14: Always be surrounded by the right people.
Rule 15: Target dictates the weapon and the weapon dictates the movement.
Rule 16: Use ACTE: assess the situation; create a simple plan; take action and evaluate your progress.
Rule 17: Prepare, Execute, Vanish.
Rule 18: A good plan, violently executed now, is better than a perfect plan next week. (Patton)
Rule 19: Don’t spend time trying to move your opponent, just move yourself.
Rule 20: Take calculated risks. That is quite different from being rash. (Patton)
Rule 21: Opening the door for a lady is not optional.
Rule 22: Always invest in good quality stuff.
Rule 23: Your style is defined by what makes you feel most comfortable.
Rule 24: Sensible defaults can reduce friction and provide simplicity anywhere one can think to apply them. (Patrick Rhone)
Rule 25: There’s nothing wrong with staying small. You can do big things with a small team.
Rule 26: Personal notes should always be handwritten, however be prepare to destroy them at a moment’s notice.
Rule 27: The less you talk, the more you’re listened to.
Rule 28: Trust your gut.
Rule 29: Diplomas and certifications are OK, but trust experience over a diploma any time.
Rule 30: The time to take counsel of your fears is before you make an important battle decision. That’s the time to listen to every fear you can imagine! When you have collected all the facts and fears and made your decision, turn off all your fears and go ahead! (Patton)
Rule 31: The greater the level of calmness of our mind, the greater our peace of mind, the greater our ability to enjoy life.
Rule 32: Do one thing at a time.
Rule 33: Find something you are willing to die for.
Rule 34: Do not put too much value on stuff.
Rule 35: Don’t go into debt.
Rule 36: The only kind of marketing you need is an amazing product. If it’s good, people will spread the word for you. All other kind of marketing is disingenuous. (Leo Babauta)
Rule 37: Do not publish your life online, keep your life private.
Rule 38: Disconnect completely once in a while.
Rule 39: Live simply.
Rule 40: Never get caught.
